What a crazy question right? Of course, we all know the answer is NO the Bible does not allow a man to spank his wife. Case closed. This is the typical way that many moral questions are answered today by Christians without them even cracking open their Bible. Wife spanking might be wrong — but if it is wrong we must prove that by looking to the Word of God and not to our feelings or our culture.
You read that right. I just read an article about how commonly accepted it was to spank grown women for misbehaving. Not even always a husband, sometimes just an adult man. I will link it bellow. It also details all the spanking scenes in old films. One man spanked his wife for not making breakfast. Another one for not doing the dishes, one for talking to a Minister.
You husbands in the same way, live with your wives in an understanding way, as with someone weaker, since she is a woman; and show her honor as a fellow heir of the grace of life, so that your prayers will not be hindered. Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them. Colossians In the same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself.
I am 40 years old and have been married to my husband for 18 years, we dated 2 years before that. When we first met he was very jealous and demanding but very sweet and good to me. I remember I was driving soon after we met and I made a wrong turn and he pinched me.