Very little was happening in your dating life. Your prospects for finding love felt about as good as your prospects of tripping over a winning lottery ticket. Then, all of a sudden, things took an upturn. You met a guy you really liked, he liked you back, and not too soon, the two of you committed to giving an exclusive relationship a go.
We all talk about love, and how we felt it at one point in time in our lives, but how exactly is love defined? According to scientist, psychologist and author Todd B. Love does not mean that you give up everything for another person. Rather, you possess sufficient trust to give them the keys to everything that you can access. The tapes that play in your head say that if people really knew what was going on inside you, they would lose respect for you. While you play those roles, juggling those masks you have to wear and hiding your pain … the pressure increases to keep pretending you have it all together. So, ditch your Sandra Dee from the end of Grease persona and just be who you are.
It's Metafilter's 20th anniversary! To celebrate, scan some cats or help fund Mefi! Is it possible to gain a man's attraction once it's lost? This recently happened to me - where my ex broke up with me after only 1 month stating that he didn't "feel" it for me anymore.
You think everything is going great with this special someone in your life, until suddenly things go south. This guy is no longer interested in you, and basically left you hanging. You have two options: you can either leave him and find someone else, or try to get this guy to like you again.