Chat or rant, adult content, spam, insulting other members, show more. Harm to minors, violence or threats, harassment or privacy invasion, impersonation or misrepresentation, fraud or phishing, show more. Yahoo Answers. I want to give my boyfriend a BJ but i'm nervous?
I've never given one before and I'm not sure if I'm ready, but I don't want him to think I'm lame or anything, and I really don't want him to break up with me. I just don't know what to do!!! Ah, the innocence of youth! This reminds me of one of my favorite Simpsons moments, where Bart balks at some clothes Marge wants to buy him because he knows that kids who wear those kinds of clothes "get beat up. Well, Ali, any guy who pressures you to give him head or who would break up with you for not going down on him isn't your friend--or a guy you really want to be your boyfriend. You have to be honest with yourself: If you don't want to do it because you don't think you're ready, or into it, that's totally fine.
If I ever write a highly erotic version of the Bible, and I might, the scene where Moses goes up Mount Sinai to retrieve the word of God will have a slightly different spin. In my version, what the prophet will bring back to us will still be 10 Commandments, but they will be the 10 Blow Job Commandments, and they will go something like this:. If you're going to give head, your teeth cannot exist.
Reading this, I get a strong sense that you expect to be judged for your age and your sexual choices. It's okay that your boyfriend doesn't want oral sex. I know you want to give him that, and maybe you're also wanting to help him not feel embarrassed and bad about himself and not feel worried that you'll judge or criticize his body, but it's also okay--actually preferable--just to take him at his word that he doesn't want you to perform oral sex on him right now. You would want, I imagine, for him to take you at your word and not try to talk you into something you said you didn't want. One of the most supportive things you can do, as someone who cares about your boyfriend, is to respect his decisions and express support for him.